How do I get over my neglectful/abusive mother?

My mom was very abusive as well. honestly you never do get over it, you just have to learn how to live a happy life despite it, cause .. truth is it's only you that has to live with yourself for the rest of your life. don't let your mom spoil that for you. Get some Post Traumatic Stress help. i'm not meaning that in a bad way i have PTSD because of my mom, and honestly, people can help you get through the flash backs, and stuff, and help you be able to move on. Feelings of hurt, and resentment is your body's way of telling you you need to deal with some stuff.